Thursday, May 05, 2005

Attitude is everywhere

Having said that... i feel attitude comes to picture in day to day... and in each phase of our life. Few occasions where i felt really worried about individuals.. who were not upto that mark where they can be really... One day we happened to have dinner at office.. and i don't whose brilliant idea was that to put the Pizza on top of the TT table which was there, thank god they used some newspaper spread over it before putting all the pizza boxes and pepsi bottles. I felt like they should not have used that TT table in first place, they could have just removed it and put other tables instead. Some people had good food and left their paper cups, in which they had pepsi in that table itself... and to the height they have put the pepsi bottle on top of bare TT table... and droplets due to the chillness on the pepsi was just getting to the table... where do they have their brains... because i have seen people who use to complaint about just anything.. and TT table not properly being maintained is just one of them... how sad :( finally the end of the dinner came... and everyone just left the paper cups they have just used... the pizza boxes... on the TT table itself... is it not a problem with them... or is it just me... who has a difference in me... i don't know... i really thought of the attitude... if they feel cleaning is "not their job" attitude.. then how do these people will ever shine in proffessional and personal life... :( It took hardly few minutes for me to wrap up the who thing with that news paper and throw it to the thrash... I did not feel bad about me being in that situation.. rather i felt about the fellows who have made most use of the table for TT... i don't know if its attitude problem or something else :(

Another day, we had a conference where one person was giving some presentation from a remote location and it was just a telecon and ppt presentation thru' messenger or net messaging... while at the start of the presentation we had around 18 people.. as the time went by... it got sized down to 9.. and finally 6 towards the end of the presentation... few people who knows the topic which was covered at that time were also there and some newbies were also there.... people who already knew it.. could have just left without disturbing others... instead the mute was done from our side and.. these people have started mocking on what the other person was saying.... seriously something wrong with the attitude of those people... isn't it..?? am i wrong here as well... :(


Its just an usual day.. i reached office and went to park my bike.. i saw most of the bike were in the front row and no one have used the row behind it... which made a little gap.. to reach all those unused space... people parking.. feels for their comfort and they never think about other's comfort... though it took sometime i decided to park in the first row instead of filling the gap in the front row... one guy came in at the same time.... and he just filled the gap in front row and i asked him to park in the inner row.. instead of filling gap and making the inner row just unusable... he said.. he would need to take the bike in a easier way.. if he leaves before others does... he also thought of his comfort.. and is it not a selfish attitude??? am i still wrong ?? :(


Treating a bearer from hotel to talking to everyone, reacting to situations and what not... attitude attitude comes in everywhere and i wish people have a better attitude in general... I know i am not a perfectionist, but still i starve to be one :(

"if you wish for a change, let the change start with/within you"

"Attitude measures altitude"

2 comments:

Manikam said...

The very samething happened Y'day at office... A group had you opened up bottles of pepsi, miranda et all... used paper cups and happily left it lying in the only table that was in the pantry... I couldn't understand what the bloody hell they thought the place was... some restaurant to have waiters cleanup behind them??? In the end me and chandra cleared it up.

That brought chandra's attitude into my focus in stark contrast with theirs. He's a project manager and I'm damn sure no other project manager would have done this sort of a deed. He was just speaking to me and clearing the table saying "now-a-days people..." to him my clearing or him clearing or calling up one of the house keeping guys doesn't make any difference at all... If I've ever seen a person that woudn't let Ego or anything else come in the way from making him a better person, its chandra.

bgood said...

cool machi! hats off to chandra da.. when people growby they discover things.. but they don't discover attitude.. pity them :(